Method and apparatus for matching registered profiles

ABSTRACT

A system of matching a first user with at least one other user of the system by comparing criteria data of the first user with characteristic data of the at least one other user and criteria data of the at least one other user with characteristic data of the first user. The characteristic and criteria data can be obtained via the Internet, and more specifically through a series of web site screens that prompt the user for characteristic and preference data. The system performs the comparison of the respective characteristic and criteria data to provide a list of matches to the first user. The first user is furnished with information that allows the first user to contact the other users for which a match has been found.

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APPENDIX

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FIELD OF THE INVENTION

The present invention relates generally to matching, and moreparticularly to a system matching one user to at least one other userbased on characteristics and preferences of the users.

BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

It is sometimes difficult for an individual to meet other individualshaving similar interests and personal characteristics. There are manyreasons for this difficulty such as long work hours, limitedorganizational memberships in the form of churches and the like, andunusual preferences to name but a few. For example, a person who hasrecently moved to a new area will likely not know many other people andthus may have limited social opportunities. Such a person may beintroduced to many new people, but common interests or desirable andundesirable characteristics may not be readily apparent. Thus, a personmay be able to reliably estimate the age of another, but not educationallevel or other such characteristics that may be of interest. Further, aperson may want to enter a relationship only with a person having asimilar religious affiliation. However, religious affiliation is notdiscernible from appearance alone. It will be appreciated that meetingothers having characteristics that are important to a particularindividual may not occur without significant effort and personal contacton the part of the individual.

In an attempt to meet the need for facilitating social interaction, manypersonal advertisement systems are available. They can be in the form ofpersonal advertisements placed in a newspaper, magazine or otherpublication. Such personal ads allow an individual to specify limitedcriteria desired in another such as gender or race and the like, inaddition to a minimal amount of text. Although such ads allowcommunication with many people in the form of readers, it will beappreciated that it can be difficult to tactfully set forth prerequisiterequirements for another in the space typically allotted for such an ad.

After placement of a personal ad, the individual must wait for others torespond and may have very little, if any, information about them.Respondents may meet at least some of the criteria of the advertiser,but the advertiser may not have many of the characteristics desired bythe respondent. This can decrease the chances of forming a desiredongoing relationship, friendship, or other form of association. Inaddition, much time can be spent and frustration experienced due to thislack of information.

As the popularity of the Internet has increased, some newspapers andother print publications now provide personal advertisements on variousweb sites. One such example is an on-line personal advertisement systemhaving a plurality of users. Each user selects a set of criteria, suchas height, body type, and interests, that must be met by another user.Upon request of a user, the system searches the database for other usersthat meet the criteria of the requesting user. In this way, a list ofpotential candidates is provided that the user may have an interest incontacting to begin a relationship or engage in activities of mutualinterest.

Such a system provides an improvement over reading countless personaladvertisements of which most will not be of any interest, but does nottake into account the requirements of the candidates with respect to thefirst user. For example, a first candidate may meet all the requirementsof the first user, but the first user may not meet any of the criteriaof the first candidate. Thus, the first user may contact candidates thatare not interested in meeting the first user because the first user doesnot meet some requirement of a respective candidate.

Another disadvantage of such a system is that the candidates meeting thecriteria of the first user are not provided in any particular order. Forexample, the first user may feel that the most important characteristicof a candidate be that the candidate not drink. A candidate may likewisefeel strongly about drinking, but be only one of many candidates thatmeet the first user's criteria. Presenting candidates that meet thecriteria specified by the first user in an ordered manner would beuseful.

SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

The present invention provides a system for matching a first user withat least a second user based on criteria and characteristics of the boththe first user and the at least a second user. The system includes auser interface means, such as a graphical user interface, to obtaincharacteristic and criteria data for users of the system. Characteristicdata generally describes a user and criteria data sets forth desiredcharacteristic data for another user. For example, for the first user acharacteristic data element with respect to drinking may be that thefirst user does not drink at all, whereas the corresponding criteriadata element for the first user can be that the first user preferssomeone who drinks socially. The system further includes memory meansfor storing the characteristic and criteria data of users of the system.Comparison means are provided to compare the criteria data of the firstuser with the characteristic data of the at least one other user and tocompare the criteria data of the at least one other user with thecharacteristic data of the first user. For the case where thecharacteristic data of the at least one other user meets the criteriadata of the first user and the characteristic data of the first usermeets the criteria data of the at least one other user, communicationmeans provide information associated with the at least one other user tothe first user. The system can include ordering means for orderingsearch results based on one or more parameters.

In a first embodiment, a graphical user interface in the form of website screens prompt users for the characteristic and criteria data thatis stored in the form of data strings in a database. A plurality oftables contain various user information. A data string used to searchthe database is formed based on the characteristic and criteria dataprovided by the first user and the at least one other user. The datastring requires that the characteristic data of the at least one otheruser meets the criteria data of the first user and that thecharacteristic data of the first user meet the criteria data of the atleast one other user. The search results, i.e., matches, are provided tothe first user in the form of information associated with at least oneother user so that the first user may contact the matched at least oneother user. The results can be ordered based on a parameter, criteriapriorities, criteria and/or characteristic weighting or other means.

In accordance with a further aspect of the invention, a computerimplemented method of matching a first user with at least one other userof a system includes obtaining and storing characteristic and criteriadata from users of the system. The system compares the criteria data ofthe first user with criteria data of at least one other user andcompares the criteria data of the at least one other user with thecharacteristic data of the first user. In the case where thecharacteristic data of the at least one other user meets the criteriadata of the first user and the characteristic data of the first usermeets the criteria data of the at least one other user, a match isfound. Match data are provided to the first user in the form ofinformation that allows the first user to establish contact with the atleast one other user. Search results can optionally be provided in anorder based on a parameter, priority of criteria and/or characteristics,criteria and/or characteristic weighting, or other means.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

The foregoing features of this invention as well as the invention itselfmay be more fully understood from the following detailed description ofthe drawings, in which:

FIG. 1 is a block diagram of a system for matching a first user with atleast one other user of the system in accordance with the presentinvention;

FIGS. 2A-B are exemplary graphical user interface pages in the form ofweb screens for obtaining information from the first user and at leastone other user of FIG. 1;

FIGS. 3A-B are flow diagrams illustrating an exemplary set of processingsteps for matching a first user to at least one other user in accordancewith the present invention;

FIG. 4 is a block diagram of the matching system of FIG. 1; and

FIG. 5 is a block diagram of a computer system adapted for use with thematching system of FIG. 1.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF THE INVENTION

The present invention is described in conjunction with an on-linepersonal advertisement system that provides to a first user informationassociated with at least one other user of the system based oncharacteristic and criteria data of the first user and the at least oneother user. However, the present invention is useful in manyapplications for matching individuals and items using a wide variety ofcharacteristic and criteria data. Accordingly, the invention is not tobe limited to the particular context, application or embodimentsdescribed herein.

In the on-line personal advertisement system described herein, referenceis made to characteristic and criteria data. As used herein,characteristic data refers to information that describes a user. Forexample, characteristic data elements associated with the first userrefer to the gender of the first user, the drinking habits of the firstuser, and other such information. Criteria data refers to thecharacteristics preferred in another user by the first user. Forexample, the criteria data of the first user can include a requirementthat another user be a specified gender or that another user havecertain drinking patterns. Thus, characteristic data refers to the firstuser and criteria data refers to the preferences of the first user withrespect to another user.

The on-line personal advertisement system can provide personal adshaving several components such as profile data in the form ofcharacteristic and criteria data, a voice greeting, and a textualportion provided by the user. In addition, each user can have a personaljournal that includes, for example, a list of other users that the userhas selected, the last e-mail sent and received for a particular user,and search results as described in conjunction with FIGS. 3A-B. Thus, auser may choose a particular means to contact another user, such as bye-mail, leaving a voice message, or other means. In one embodiment, auser can purchase "stamps" to enable e-mail or other user contact. Anexemplary personal advertisement system and aspects thereof aredescribed in further detail in other applications assigned to theAssignee of the present application and filed on even date herewithentitled: "Interactive Personals Online Network Method and Apparatus"(Attorney Docket No. 17778-24), "Method and Apparatus for ProvidingPersonalized Advertisements on a Computer Network" (Attorney Docket No.17778-21), "Personal Journal" (Attorney Docket No. 17778-23), and"Method and Apparatus for Providing A Personals Page" (Attorney DocketNo. 17778-19), all herein incorporated by reference.

As shown in FIG. 1, a system for matching a first user to at least oneother user can be implemented using communication over the Internet.Referring to FIG. 1, a public network or Internet 10 is coupled to aprivate network 12 through a firewall server 14. Coupled to privatenetwork 12 are a plurality of users 15a-15N generally denoted 15. Asused herein, the term "Internet" generally refers to any collection ofdistinct networks working together to appear as a single network to auser. The term "Internet", on the other hand, refers to the so-calledworld wide "network of networks" that are connected to each other usingthe Internet protocol (IP) and other similar protocols. The Internetprovides file transfer, remote log in, electronic mail, news and otherservices.

As described herein, the exemplary public network of FIG. 1 is fordescriptive purposes only. Although the description may refer to termscommonly used in describing particular public networks such as theInternet, the description and concepts equally apply to other public andprivate computer networks, including systems having architecturesdissimilar to that shown in FIG. 1. For example and without limitationthereto, the system of the present invention can find application inpublic as well as private networks, such as university roommatematching, company job listings and transfer opportunities.

The firewall server 14 is a computer which couples the computers of aprivate network or server e.g. network 12 to the Internet 10. Firewallserver 14 may thus act as a gatekeeper for messages and data grams goingto and from the Internet 10.

Also coupled to Internet 10 through a second firewall server 16 is aserver 18. Server 18 has coupled thereto a matching system 20 and a userinformation database 22. Server 18 allows properly authorized users toaccess matching system 20. The function of matching system 20 will bedescribed in detail herein below. Suffice it here to say, however, thatmatching system 20 matches a first user with at least one other userbased on characteristic and criteria data of the users.

An Internet service provider 24 is also coupled to the Internet 10. Aservice provider is an organization that provides connections to a partof the Internet. Internet service provider 24 includes a processor whichcouples a plurality of users 26a-26M to the Internet 10. Thus, users26a-26M are coupled to the Internet through Internet service provider26. Also coupled to the Internet 10 are a plurality of web sites ornodes 28. When one of the users 15, 26 wishes to conduct a transactionat one of the nodes 28, the user 15, 26 accesses the node 28 through theInternet 10.

Each node in the system shown in FIG. 1 is configured to understandwhich firewall and node to send data packets to given a destination IPaddress. This may be implemented by providing the firewalls and nodeswith a map of all valid IP addresses disposed on its particular privatenetwork or another location on the Internet 10. The map may be in theform of prefix matches up to and including the full IP address.

User information can be stored in database 22. The information need onlybe stored once. The information may be stored, for example, as a recordor as a file. The information for each particular user is stored in aparticular data structure in database 22.

Database 22 and matching system 20 may be provided, for example, as adatabase management system (DBMS), an object-oriented databasemanagement system (ODBMS), a relational database management system (e.g.DB2, ACCESS etc.) or another conventional database package. Thus, thedatabase 22 can be implemented using object-oriented technology or viatext files. Further, the database 22 can be accessed via a StructuredQuery Language (SQL) or other tools known to one of ordinary skill inthe art.

FIGS. 2A-B are exemplary screens provided to a user, such as over theInternet, to obtain user characteristic and criteria data from users ofthe system. As shown in FIG. 2A, the user provides gender data viagender selection area 50. The user also identifies the gender and typeof relationship that is desired in relationship selection area 52. Thelisted choices shown represent one embodiment with many other choicesalso being possible without departing from the scope of the invention.Similarly for other characteristic and criteria data elements which arenot to be limited to the particular embodiments shown and describedherein. Further, more and fewer characteristic data and criteria dataelements, having more and less choices are possible. In age informationarea 54, the user provides age characteristic data 54a and age criteriadata 54b in the form of a range of ages. In ethnicity information area56, the user provides ethnicity characteristic data at user ethnicityarea 56a, and ethnicity criteria data at preferred ethnicity area 56b.The user provides body type characteristic data in the form of height inheight area 58a, and body type characteristic data in body type area58c. The user provides body type criteria data in the form of heightrange in preferred height area 58b and preferred body type informationin body type area 58d. In an exemplary embodiment, a user selects bodytype characteristic and criteria data from listed possibilities, such asslim, athletic, average, a few pounds overweight, and overweight. Itwill be appreciated that more and fewer choices, using different termscan be used. Also, for each of the data elements the user selects fromthe listed choices that are appropriate for the particular data. Forexample, smoking and drinking characteristic and criteria data providechoices such as no preference, never, occasionally and regularly. Foreducational level, a user may choose from no preference or prefer not toanswer, high school, some college, completed college, and post-college.In an illustrative embodiment, the user can specify that another userhas completed at least one of the listed levels of education.

As can be seen, the user can choose not to provide certaincharacteristics by responding "I prefer not to answer". Similarly, theuser can decline to express a preference for certain criteria data byresponding "No preference". The corresponding characteristic or criteriadata element is then treated accordingly as described in conjunctionwith the process steps associated with forming a search string. Sufficeit to say that a no preference response will not limit the search forother users for the particular element.

In an exemplary embodiment, the obtained characteristic and criteriadata are stored in first and second tables, wherein a row is providedfor each user of the system. In one embodiment, the first or "seeking"table, Table I below, stores data that in an illustrative embodimentmust be provided in order to do a search. This data are the gender andtype of association that is desired in another user and is selected asshown in gender and relationship selection areas 50 and 52 (FIG. 2A).The system uses this information to match one user to another. Forexample a male seeking a female for a friend will be matched to a femaleseeking a male for a friend.

                  TABLE I                                                         ______________________________________                                        FIELD          DESCRIPTION                                                    ______________________________________                                        USER.sub.-- ID Handle                                                         SEEK.sub.-- GENER                                                                            Gender sought by user                                          SEEK.sub.-- FOR                                                                              Type of association sought by user                             ______________________________________                                    

The second or "user" table, Table II below, is an illustrativeembodiment of a table storing data associated with a user includingexemplary characteristic and criteria data obtained through screens astypified by FIGS. 2A-B.

                  TABLE II                                                        ______________________________________                                        FIELD            DESCRIPTION                                                  ______________________________________                                        USER.sub.-- ID   Handle                                                       SEQ.sub.-- ID    sequential ID                                                CLIENT.sub.-- ID identifies client newspaper                                  BOX.sub.-- NO    mailbox from audiotext system                                                 to record greeting                                           INTERNET         user sign up from Internet?                                  FLAGS            i.e., send automatch mailings?                               PRIV.sub.-- PW   login password                                               VRFY.sub.-- PASSWD                                                                             verify email addresses reply mail                            VERIFIED         has email address been verified?                             PERSONAL.sub.-- TEMP                                                                           template code for personal page being                                         edited                                                       PERSONAL.sub.-- PG                                                                             template code of personal page                               STAMPS           number of stamps that have been                                               paid for                                                     CREATED          date user created                                            LAST.sub.-- ACT  last login date                                              MATCHED          date user was last matched                                   FNAME            first name                                                   LNAME            last name                                                    ADDR.sub.-- A    first address                                                ADDR.sub.-- B    second address                                               CITY             city                                                         STATE            state                                                        ZIP              zip code                                                     COUNTRY          country                                                      AREACODE         area code                                                    PHONENUMBER      phone number                                                 GET.sub.-- MAILINGS                                                                            get mailings?                                                EMAIL            email address                                                HEADUNE          headline of personal ad                                      BODY             body of ad                                                   EXPIRES          date web ad expires                                          STATUS           approved, unapproved, or rejected                            SEX              gender                                                       BIRTHDAY         date of birth                                                ETHNO            ethnicity                                                    RELIGION         religion                                                     CHILDREN         parental status                                              SMOKING          smoking status                                               DRINKING         drinking status                                              BODY.sub.-- TYPE type of body                                                 EDUCATION        educational background                                       HEIGHT           height                                                       AGE              age                                                          LOCATION         location                                                     LATITUDE         geographic latitude                                          LONGITUDE        geographic longitude                                         ETHNO.sub.-- PREF                                                                              preferred ethnicity                                          RELIGION.sub.-- PREF                                                                           preferred religious affiliation                              CHILDREN.sub.-- PREF                                                                           preferred parental status                                    SMOKING.sub.-- PREF                                                                            preferred smoking status                                     DRINKING.sub.-- PREF                                                                           preferred drinking status                                    BODY.sub.-- TYPE.sub.-- PREF                                                                   preferred body type                                          EDUCATION.sub.-- PREF                                                                          preferred educational level                                  HEIGHT.sub.-- MIN                                                                              preferred minimum height                                     HEIGHT.sub.-- MAX                                                                              preferred maximum height                                     AGE.sub.-- MIN   preferred minimum age                                        AGE.sub.-- MAX   preferred maximum age                                        LOCATION.sub.-- PREF                                                                           preferred geographical location                              HAS.sub.-- PROFILE                                                                             have a profile?                                              HAS.sub.-- GREETING                                                                            have a greeting?                                             HAS.sub.-- REMOTE.sub.-- GREETING                                                              have an audiotext greeting?                                  ______________________________________                                    

Tables I and II are exemplary embodiments and the invention is not to belimited thereto. More and less criteria and characteristic data elementscan be used. For example, a user can interactively take a psychologicaltest, such as enneagrams and Briggs-Meyers, that yield discrete results.A user can take the test and have the option to have the results addedas a characteristic data element and as a criteria element. Thus theuser and another user would be matched for similar test results. Also,the user may choose not to provide certain characteristic data and maydecline to specify a preference with respect to one or more of thecriteria data elements.

FIGS. 3A-B are a series of flow diagrams showing the processingperformed by matching system 20 (FIG. 1) to generate a match list inresponse to a user request. The rectangular elements (typified byelement 200 in FIG. 3A), herein denoted as "processing blocks,"represent computer software instructions or groups of instructions. Thediamond shaped elements (typified by element 252 in FIG. 3B), hereindenoted as "decision blocks," represent computer software instructions,or groups of instructions which affect the execution of the computersoftware instructions represented by the processing blocks.

Alternatively, the processing and decision blocks represent stepsperformed by functionally equivalent circuits such as a digital signalprocessor circuit or an application specific integrated circuit (ASIC).The flow diagrams do not depict the syntax of any particular programminglanguage. Rather, the flow diagrams illustrate the functionalinformation one of ordinary skill in the art requires to fabricatecircuits or to generate computer software to perform the processingrequired of the particular apparatus. It should be noted that manyroutine program elements, such as initialization of loops and variablesand the use of temporary variables are not shown. It will be appreciatedby those of ordinary skill in the art that unless otherwise indicatedherein, the particular sequence of steps described is illustrative onlyand can be varied without departing from the spirit of the invention.

Referring to FIGS. 3A and 3B, the system obtains and stores thecharacteristic and criteria data for users of the system in step 200,and for a first user in step 202, as described above in conjunction withFIGS. 2A-B. A first user can request a search of the database for otherusers based on characteristic and criteria data. In another embodiment,the system can periodically examine the database to search for users forwhich there is a bidirectional match of characteristic and criteriadata. A search string is formed in step 204 to match the first usercriteria data with the characteristic data of other users and the firstuser characteristic data with the criteria data of the other users. Theformation of the search string is discussed in further detail in FIG.3B. After forming the search string, the database is searched using thestring to obtain a list of matches in step 206. In optional step 208,the search results in the form of matches are provided to the firstuser. A user that has been matched with the first user can be notifiedthat a match for that user has been found. It will be appreciated thatsearch strings can be formed to examine the user database forstatistical or marketing purposes, as well as for user searching.

FIG. 3B shows details associated with step 204 of FIG. 3A in definingthe search string. In an exemplary embodiment, in order to query theuser database, a search string is formed that includes the relevantsearch criteria to search the database. In step 250, a particularcriteria element of the first user is examined, preferred body type forexample. This criteria element is checked in step 252 to determine ifthe element is null or don't care. A don't care corresponds to a userresponse of "No preference" and a null corresponds to no answer at all,although there is no difference between them with respect to processing.If the particular criteria element is null or don't care, than thesearch string does not need to be modified and the next element isselected for examination in step 253. If the user has provided apreference for the criteria element then the search string is appendedin step 254 to include the selected criteria. More specifically, thesearch string is appended to require that the correspondingcharacteristic data element of the respective other user in the databasematch the particular criteria data element of the first user. In step256, the corresponding characteristic data element of the first user isexamined and in step 258 a determination is made to see if the elementis null or don't care. If it is, then the search string does not need tobe modified and the next criteria element of the first user is selectedin step 253. If the element is not null or don't care, the search stringis appended in step 260 to require that the particular criteria dataelement of the respective other user match the correspondingcharacteristic data element of the first user or that the respectiveother user criteria data element is null, i.e., no preference. In step262, a determination is made as to whether there are more criteriaelements to be compared. If there are, then the next element is selectedin step 253. In a further embodiment, a determination is made to see ifthe first user has specified one or more keywords to be searched for intext associated with a personal ad of another user. If one or morekeywords has been specified, then the search string is modified torequire that the one or more search word be found. After the searchstring has been formed, the user database is searched in step 206 (FIG.3A) using the formed search string.

In one embodiment, a match represents a match of each of the specifiedcriteria elements of the first user and the at least one other user.More specifically, each of the criteria data elements that have beenspecified by the users is met by the respective other user. Response inthe form of no preferences would not prevent a match from occurring. Ina further embodiment, a match can represent a match of less than all ofthe criteria elements. For example, all the criteria elements of firstuser are met by the characteristic data of another user except for oneelement. Thus, a close match can be made and communicated as such to thefirst user. In one embodiment, inexact matches are provided in the casewhere no exact matches are found, or some limited number. For example,the criteria data elements can be removed in a predetermined order. Inan illustrative embodiment, where no or few exact matches result, firstreligion criteria of the first and/or second user can be ignored, andthe search repeated. The order can be specified by the first and/orsecond user, or the client interactively or otherwise.

In a further embodiment of the invention, the results of a search areordered in relation to a parameter. It will be appreciated thatparticular examples provided herein are illustrative and are notintended to limit the invention thereto. In one embodiment, the resultsare ordered based in order form most to least important: whether a userhas email, whether a user has a voice greeting, whether a user has atextual personal ad, and also by a system sequential ID number. Atextual personal ad used herein is one component of an on-line personaladvertisement system, where the possible components are usercharacteristic and criteria data (profile data), a personal ad havingtext entered by a user, a voice greeting that a user has recorded, and asequential identification that is assigned by the system.

In another embodiment, search results are ordered by examining thepriority of particular criteria data elements assigned by users. Forexample, the user may assign a priority between one and ten inclusive toeach criteria element wherein multiple elements can be assigned the samepriority. In another embodiment, each of the criteria elements areassigned a priority from most to least important. Thus, for twentycriteria elements, the elements would be assigned a priority from one totwenty, with each element having a unique priority between one andtwenty inclusive. The priority data assigned to each element can beincluded as part of a search string. In an illustrative embodiment, thesearch string can require that the first user and another user of FIG.2B each be assigned the same priority, or within some range thereof. Inanother embodiment, the most important criteria element must be the samefor the users, or within some range thereof. Further embodiments includeordering the search results based on e-mail capability, voice-greetingstatus, on-line personal ad status, system identification number,geographical closeness, closeness in age, astrological comparability,response level to personal ad, client, number of users in personaljournal, likelihood of responding to an e-mail, most recent systeminteraction, and number of system stamps.

In a still further embodiment, the criteria and/or characteristic datacan be weighted. For example, the height criteria of the first user canbe weighted to worth twice that of drinking. Each of the criteria dataelements can be provided with a particular weight. In anotherembodiment, a user can select from a predetermined weighting scheme. Ina further embodiment, the user can choose a weight to be assigned toeach criteria data element. Thus, for each criteria data element thatmatches a corresponding characteristic data element of another user anumber of points corresponding to the weight would be added to a runningtotal. Each comparison of the first user and a respective other userwould have a point total associated therewith. Some number of thehighest point totals, ten or fifty for example, can be saved. The userinformation corresponding to the other users having the highest pointtotals is provided to the first user so that the first user can contactthe respective other users.

In an alternative embodiment, "fuzzy" matching can be used for the casewhere ranges are given. For example, if a first user indicates apreference for an age range of 34-40, weights are assigned to all ages,where the ages within the range are heavily weighted while the weightsassociated with particular ages fall off as the distance from theselected range increases. In the prior example, ages from 34-40 would beheavily weighted, while 41 would be assigned a weight less than 40, 42less than 41, and so on. This can continue until an exemplary agedistance is reached, such as ten years, so that ages 50 and above wouldnot be weighted or could be assigned a negative weight. In anothermodification, ranges can be relaxed in the case where there are none, orfew matches. For example, for a preferred age range of 34-40 thatresults in no matches, the range can be increased to 32-42 and thesearch repeated. In the embodiments described herein, the system caninteract with the first user to tailor a search in accordance with thefirst user's instructions. Thus, in the case where the age range isrelaxed, the system can provide a sample ad that would be available forthe relaxed age range. Such interaction can be used to modify othercriteria data elements as well.

In a further embodiment, the system stores information for each userthat indicates, for example, the number of emails sent and received,what types of people send emails to what other types of people based onone or more characteristic and/or criteria data, the number of timesthat a user is matched with another user, the number of times a user hasbeen contacted and how many times that user responded. This informationcan be used as a criteria so that a user can indicate a preference forother users that generally respond to emails. This information can alsobe used to order search results so that a user that hasn't responded tothe last five emails may be placed near the bottom of the searchresults.

In yet another embodiment, a system for matching in accordance with thepresent invention provides a personal advertisement service for aplurality of publications, such as newspapers or clients. A newspaperclient may enlist the services of a vendor, such as Tele-Publishing,Inc., the Assignee of the present invention, to provide the matchingsystem. In an illustrative embodiment, the system provides a personaladvertisement service to a plurality of clients and each personaladvertiser is assigned to particular client. The characteristic clientinformation for a particular user can be stored in the CLIENT₋₋ ID ofTable II. It will be appreciated that first and second clients that bothoperate within a particular geographic area, i.e., competing newspapers,can use the matching system. However, the first client may not wish toallow personal advertisers associated with the first client to bematched with personal advertisers associated with the second client. Inone embodiment, the system does a search for a first user that preventsa match from resulting with a second user based on the clientcharacteristic. Thus, although the first and second users may match eachof the respective characteristic and client data elements, a match doesnot result in the case where the first user is associated with a firstclient that does not allow matches with other users associated with asecond client. In another embodiment, a first client may require thatonly personal advertisers, or users, associated with the first clientcan be matched with other users. Thus, a search for a first userassociated with a first client would only return matches of other usersthat are associated with the first client.

In a still further embodiment, match results are ordered based on apredefined order of clients. In other words, matches of other usersassociated with a first client are provided first, and other usersassociated with a second client are provided second, and so on.

In yet another embodiment, one or more clients have client specificcategories associated therewith. In FIG. 2, the categories shown includea characteristic gender, preferred gender, and the four types ofassociation, i.e., relationship, friend, email pen pal, and sports oractivity partner. A client can also include further categories tailoredto one or more clients. For example, a client having a publicationdirected to sports enthusiasts can include categories to search for aChristian man seeking Christian woman for outdoor sports. In order tofind a match for a first user with a second user, the second user wouldhave to be associated with the same or different client that has thesame categories, and the category information would have to match. Ofcourse for a match to result, characteristic and criteria data wouldalso have to match. In one embodiment, a criteria search is not doneunless the category information matches. Thus, a search can be limitedto users that are associated with clients that have the same categories.

Referring now to FIG. 4, a matching system in accordance with thepresent invention includes a processor 300 coupled to a user input datainterface 302 and a user output data interface 304. User input andoutput interface 302,304 can be a graphical user interface (GUI) orother suitable means for data transfer. Processor 300 can be aprogrammable device that implements the processing steps described inconjunction with FIGS. 2A-B.

Processor 300 is coupled to a plurality of tables 306a-306n generallydenoted 306. Each of the tables includes information associated withusers of the system. In an exemplary embodiment, a plurality of tablesinclude various user information as discussed above with respect toTables I and II. Table I contains the preferred gender and type ofrelationship desired (i.e., relationship, friendship, activity partner,e-mail) by the users. In an exemplary embodiment, this information isrequired to do a search for a match. Table II contains thecharacteristic and criteria data for users of the system.

Referring now to FIG. 5, a computer system 100 on which the inventionmay be implemented is shown. Computer system 100 may be provided, forexample, as an IBM compatible computer or any other equivalent computersystem. The exemplary computer system 100 of FIG. 5 is for descriptivepurposes only. Although the description may refer to terms commonly usedin describing particular computer systems, the description and conceptsequally apply to other processing systems, including systems havingarchitectures dissimilar to that shown in FIG. 5.

Computer system 100 includes a central processing unit (CPU) 102, whichmay be provided, for example, as a conventional microprocessor, a randomaccess memory (RAM) 104 for temporary storage of information, and a readonly memory (ROM) 106 for permanent storage of information. Computersystem 100 also includes a display 108, and an audio system 110. Each ofthe aforementioned components are coupled to a bus 120. Operation ofcomputer system 100 is generally controlled and coordinated by operatingsystem software. The operating system controls allocation of systemresources and performs tasks such as processing, scheduling, memorymanagement, networking, and I/O services, among things. Thus, anoperating system resident in system memory and executed by CPU 102coordinates the operation of the other elements of computer system 100.

Also coupled to bus 120 is a non-volatile mass storage device which maybe provided as a diskette 122. Diskette 122 is insertable into adiskette drive 124 which is, in turn, coupled to bus 120 by a controller126. Similarly, a compact disc (CD) ROM 128 is insertable into a CD ROMdrive 130 which is, in turn, coupled to bus 120 by a controller 128. Ahard disk 134 is typically provided as part of a fixed disk drive 136which is coupled to bus 120 by a disk controller 138.

Data and software may be provided to and extracted from computer system100 via removable storage media such as diskette 122 and CD ROM 128. Forexample, data values generated may be stored on storage media similar tomedia 122, 128. The data values may then be retrieved from the media122, 128 by CPU 102 and utilized by CPU 102 to perform the processingsteps described herein. Alternatively, CPU 102 may simply store suchdata values in ROM 106.

Alternatively still, computer software useful for matching may be storedon storage media similar to media 122, 128. Such computer software maybe retrieved from media 122, 128 for immediate execution by CPU 102 orby other processors included in one or more peripherals of computersystem 100 such as display 108, or audio system 110. CPU 102 mayretrieve the computer software and subsequently store the software inRAM 104 or ROM 106 for later execution. User input to computer system100 may be provided by a number of devices. For example, a keyboard 140and a mouse 142 are coupled to bus 120 by a controller 144.

Computer system 100 also includes a communications adaptor 150 whichallows the system to be interconnected to a local area network (LAN) ora wide area network (WAN), schematically illustrated by bus 152 andnetwork 154. Thus, data and computer program software can be transferredto and from computer system 100 via adapter 150, bus 152 and network154.

As indicated heretofore, aspects of this invention pertain to specific"methods" and "method functions" implementable on computer systems.Those of ordinary skill in the art should readily appreciate thatcomputer code defining these functions can be delivered to a computer inmany forms; including, but not limited to: (a) information permanentlystored on non-writable storage media (e.g., read only memory deviceswithin a computer or CD-ROM disks readable by a computer I/Oattachment); (b) information alterably stored on writable storage media(e.g., floppy disks and hard drives); or (c) information conveyed to acomputer through communication media such as telephone networks. Itshould be understood, therefore, that such media, when carrying suchinformation, represent alternate embodiments of the present invention.

One of ordinary skill in the art will realize further features andadvantages of the invention from the above-described embodiments.Accordingly, the invention is not to be limited by what has beenparticularly shown and described, except as indicated by the appendedclaims. All references cited herein are expressly incorporated byreference in their entirety.

                                      APPENDIX                                    __________________________________________________________________________    searchlib.pl                                                                  #!/usr/local/bin/perl                                                         $top = "/usr/local/weblib/tpigroup/online";                                   $stemmer = "$top/bin/stemmer";                                                $debug = 0;                                                                   sub gen.sub.-- critena {                                                      local ($them.sub.-- table, *q, $me.sub.-- table, $user.sub.-- id,             $all.sub.-- criteria) = @.sub.-- ;                                            my $where, $i, $k, @keywords;                                                 if ($them.sub.-- table ne ") {                                                $them.sub.-- table = "$them.sub.-- table.";                                   }                                                                             if ($me.sub.-- table ne ") {                                                  $me.sub.-- table = "$me.sub.-- table.";                                       }                                                                             if ($debug) {                                                                 foreach $i (keys %q) {                                                        print "$i: ", $q{$i}, "<br>\n";                                     }                                                                             }                                                                             # don't do this if automatch                                                  if ($q{`to.sub.-- sex`} ne ") {                                               $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}sex = `$q{to.sub.-- sex}` ";               }                                                                             if($all.sub.-- criteria)                                                      {                                                                             if ($q{`age.sub.-- min`}) {                                                   $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}age >= $q{age.sub.-- min} ";               }                                                                             if ($q{`age.sub.-- max`}) {                                                   $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}age <= $q{age.sub.-- max} ";               }                                                                             # reverse (need to add more reverse stuff)                                    if ($q{`age`}) {                                                              $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}age.sub.-- min <= $q{age} and              ${them.sub.-- table}age.sub.-- max >= $q{age} ";                              }                                                                             if ($q{`ethno.sub.-- pref`} ne " && $q{`ethno.sub.-- pref`} ne `X`) {         $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}ethno = `$q{ethno.sub.-- pref}` ";         }                                                                             if ($q{`ethno`} ne " && $q{`ethno`} ne `X`) {                                 $where = "and (${them.sub.-- table}ethno.sub.-- pref = `$q{ethno}` or         ${them.sub.-- table}ethno.sub.-- pref is null)";                              }                                                                             if ($q{`height.sub.-- min`} ne ") {                                           $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}height >= `$q{`height.sub.-- min`}`       or                                                                            ${them.sub.-- table}height IS NULL) ";                                        }                                                                             if($q{`height.sub.-- max`} ne ") {                                            $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}height <= `$q{`height.sub.-- max`}`       or                                                                            ${them.sub.-- table}height IS NULL) ";                                        }                                                                             if ($q{`height`} ne ") {                                                      $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}height.sub.-- min <= `$q{`height`}`       or                                                                            ${them.sub.-- table}height.sub.-- min IS NULL) ";                             $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}height.sub.-- max >= `$q{`height`}`       or                                                                            ${them.sub.-- table}height.sub.-- max IS NULL) ";                             }                                                                             if ($q{`body.sub.-- type.sub.-- pref`} ne " && $q{`body.sub.-- type.sub.--     pref`} ne `X`) {                                                             $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}body.sub.-- type = `$q{body.sub.--         type.sub.-- pref}` ";                                                         }                                                                             if ($q{`body.sub.-- type`} ne "&& $q{`body.sub.-- type`} ne `X`) {            $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}body.sub.-- type.sub.-- pref =            `$q{body.sub.-- type}` or                                                     ${them.sub.-- table}body.sub.-- type.sub.-- pref is null) ";                  }                                                                             if ($q{`smoking.sub.-- pref`}) {                                              $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}smoking = $q{smoking.sub.-- pref} ";       }                                                                             if($q{`smoking`}) {                                                           $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}smoking.sub.-- pref = $q{smoking} or      ${them.sub.-- table}smoking.sub.-- pref is null) ";                           }                                                                             if ($q{`drinking.sub.-- pref`}) {                                             $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}drinking = $q{drinking.sub.-- pref}        ";                                                                            }                                                                             if($q{`drinking`}) {                                                          $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}drinking.sub.-- pref = $q{drinking}       or                                                                            ${them.sub.-- table}drinking.sub.-- pref is null) ";                          }                                                                             if ($q{`education.sub.-- pref`}) {                                            $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}education >= $q{education.sub.-- pref}     ";                                                                            }                                                                             if ($q{`education`}) {                                                        $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}education.sub.-- pref                     <= $q{education} or                                                           ${them.sub.-- table}education.sub.-- pref is null) ";                         }                                                                             if ($q{`religion.sub.-- pref`} ne " && $q{`religion.sub.-- pref`} ne `X`)     {                                                                             $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}religion = `$q{religion.sub.-- pref}`      ";                                                                            }                                                                             if ($q{`religion`} ne " && $q{`religion`} ne `X`) {                           $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}religion.sub.-- pref = `$q{religion}`     or                                                                            ${them.sub.-- table}religion.sub.-- pref is null) ";                          }                                                                             if ($q{`children.sub.-- pref`} ne " && $q{`children.sub.-- pref`} ne `X`)     {                                                                             $where .= "and ${them.sub.-- table}children = `$q{children.sub.-- pref}`      ";                                                                            }                                                                             if ($q{`children`} ne " && $q{`children`} ne `X`) {                           $where .= "and (${them.sub.-- table}children.sub.-- pref = `$q{children}`     or                                                                            ${them.sub.-- table}children.sub.-- pref is null) ";                          }                                                                             #here we create a box surrounding the distance circle, contacting points      on                                                                            #the circle east, west, north, south                                          #a cheap and decent approximation                                             if (($q{`distance.sub.-- pref`} ne ") && ($q{`latitude`} ne ") &&             ($q{`longitude`} ne ")) {                                                     $miles.sub.-- per.sub.-- lat = 68.9754;                                       $pi = 3.14159265358979;                                                       $miles.sub.-- per.sub.-- lon = 68.9754 * cos($pi*$q{`latitude`}/180);         $diff.sub.-- lat = $q{`distance.sub.-- pref`} / $miles.sub.-- per.sub.--      lat;                                                                          $diff.sub.-- lon = $q{`distance.sub.-- pref`} / $miles.sub.-- per.sub.--      lon;                                                                          $westlat = $q{`latitude`};                                                    $westlon = $q{`longitude`} - $diff.sub.-- lon;                                $northlat = $q{`latitude`} + $diff.sub.-- lat;                                $northlon = $q{`longitude`};                                                  $eastlat = $q{`latitude`};                                                    $eastlon = $q{`longitude`} + $diff.sub.-- lon;                                $southlat = $q{`latitude`} - $diff.sub.-- lat;                                $southlon = $q{`longitude`};                                                  $where .=" and (${them.sub.-- table}latitude > $southlat) and                 (${them.sub.-- table}latitude < $northlat) and (${them.sub.-- table}longit    ude > $westlon)                                                               and (${them.sub.-- table}longitude < $eastlon) ";                             }                                                                             if (($q{`location.sub.-- pref`} ne ") && ($q{`latitude`} ne ") &&             ($q{`longitude`} ne ")) {                                                     $miles.sub.-- per.sub.-- lat = 68.9754;                                       $pi = 3.14159265358979;                                                       $miles.sub.-- per.sub.-- lon = 68.9754 * cos($pi*$q{`latitude`}/180);         $diff.sub.-- lat = $q{`location.sub.-- pref`} / $miles.sub.-- per.sub.--      lat;                                                                          $diff.sub.-- lon = $q{`location.sub.-- pref } / $miles.sub.-- per.sub.--      lon;                                                                          $westlat = $q{`latitude`};                                                    $westlon = $q{`longitude`} - $diff.sub.-- lon;                                $northlat = $q{`latitude`} + $diff.sub.-- lat;                                $northlon = $q{`longitude`};                                                  $eastlat = $q{`latitude`};                                                    $eastlon = $q{`longitude`} + $diff.sub.-- lon;                                $southlat = $q{`latitude`} - $diff.sub.-- lat;                                $southlon = $q{`longitude`};                                                  $where .=" and (${them.sub.-- table}latitude > $southlat) and                 (${them.sub.-- table}latitude < $northlat) and (${them.sub.-- table}longit    ude > $westlon)                                                               and (${them.sub.-- table}longitude < $eastlon) ";                             #   $where .=" and ($q{`latitude`} > ${them.sub.-- table}latitude -               (${them.sub.-- table}location.sub.-- pref / $miles.sub.-- per.sub.--          lat)) and ($q{`latitude`} <                                                   ${them.sub.-- table}latitude + (${them.sub.-- table}location.sub.--           pref / $miles.sub.-- per.sub.-- lat)) and                                     ($q{`longitude`} > ${them.sub.-- table}longitude - (${them.sub.--             table}location.sub.-- pref /                                                  ($miles.sub.-- per.sub.-- lat * cos($pi * ${them.sub.-- table}latitude         / 180)))) and                                                                ($q{`longitude`} < ${them.sub.-- table}longitude + (${them.sub.--             table}location.sub.-- pref /                                                  ($miles.sub.-- per.sub.-- lat * cos($pi * ${them.sub.-- table}latitude         / 180)))) ";                                                             }                                                                             if ($q{`member.sub.-- cat`} =˜ /Internet/) {                            $where .="and ${them.sub.-- table}internet = `Y` ";                           }                                                                             if ($q{`member.sub.-- cat`}=˜ /Newspaper/) {                            $where .="and ${them.sub.-- table}internet = `N` ";                           }                                                                             if ($q{`keyedwords`} ne ") {                                                  $tmp = "$$.tmp";                                                              open (TMP, ">/tmp/$$.tmp") || warn "match: cant open        tmp file: $!";                                                                print TMP "$q{`keyedwords`}\n";                                     close TMP;                                                                    #   print "current directory: ", `pwd`, "<br>\n";                       $k = `$stemmer < /tmp/$$.tmp`;                                                unlink("/tmp/$$.tmp");                                                    #   print "stemmed: $k<br>\n";                                      @keywords = split (/,/, $k);                                                  $where .=" "and (upper(${them.sub.-- table}body) likeupper(`%".               $keywords[0]. "%`)";                                                          for ($i = 1; $i < @keywords; $i++) {                                          $where .=" or ${them.sub.-- table}body like `%" . $keywords[$1]. "%`";        }                                                                             $where .= "0";                                                                }                                                                             }#end if all.sub.-- criteria                                                  return $where;                                                                }                                                                             1;                                                                            automatch.pl                                                                  #!/usr/local/bin/perl                                                         #                                                                             require "/usr/local/weblib/tpigroup/online/pl/config.pl";                     require "$TOUCHE.sub.-- ROOT/lib/searchlib.pl";                               $debug = 0;                                                                   @fields =                                                                          (`sex`, `age.sub.-- min`, `age.sub.-- max', `age`, `ethno.sub.--              pref', `ethno`,                                                               `body.sub.-- type.sub.-- pref`, `body.sub.-- type`, `smoking.sub.--           pref`, `smoking`,                                                             `drinking.sub.-- pref`, `drinking`, `education.sub.-- pref`,                  `education`,                                                                  `religion.sub.-- pref`, `religion`, `children.sub.-- pref`,                   `children`);                                                             sub automatch {                                                               my ($user) = @.sub.-- ;                                                       my $sql = "select " . join(`,`, @fields). " from wp.sub.-- user where         user.sub.-- id = `$user`";                                                    my $cursor = $dbh-> prepare ($sql);                                           if ($cursor eq undef) {                                                       print "<H3 > Message: ", $dbh->errstr, "</H3>\n";                   exit;                                                                         }                                                                             $cursor->execute;                                                             my @row = $cursor->fetchrow;                                                  $cursor->finish;                                                              for ($i = 0; $i < @row; $i++) {                                               $q{$fields[$i]} = $row[$i];                                                   }                                                                             $sql = "                                                                      insert into wp.sub.-- journal                                                 (select                                                                       usr.sub.-- from.user.sub.-- id,                                               usr.sub.-- to.user.sub.-- id,                                                 SYSDATE,                                                                      NULL,                                                                         NULL,                                                                         NULL,                                                                         NULL,                                                                         `This journal entry brought to you by the Automatcher.`,                      `N`,                                                                          `A`                                                                           from                                                                          wp.sub.-- user usr.sub.-- from,                                               wp.sub.-- user usr.sub.-- to,                                                 wp.sub.-- seeking seek.sub.-- from,                                           wp.sub.-- seeking seek.sub.-- to                                              where                                                                         usr.sub.-- from.user.sub.-- id = seek.sub.-- from.user.sub.-- id and          seek.sub.-- to.user.sub.-- id = usr.sub.-- to.user.sub.-- id and              seek.sub.-- from.seek.sub.-- gender = usr.sub.-- to.sex and                   seek.sub.-- to.seek.sub.-- gender = usr.sub.-- from.sex and                   seek.sub.-- to.seek.sub.-- for = seek.sub.-- from.seek.sub.-- for and         usr.sub.-- from.user.sub.-- id = `$user` and                                  usr.sub.-- to.user.sub.-- id not in (select journal.sub.-- id from            wp.sub.-- journal where user id =                                             `$user`) ";                                                                   $sql .= &gen.sub.-- criteria ("usr.sub.-- to", *q);                           $sql .= ")";                                                                  $sql =˜ s/\n/ /gm;                                            print $sql, "\n" if $debug;                                         $rc = $dbh->do($sql);                                                         if ($dbh->errstr ne ")                                                        {                                                                             print "error: ", $dbh->errstr, "\n";                                }                                                                             $dbh->commit;                                                                 print "rc = $rc\n" if $debug;                                       if ($rc = ˜/ [0-9]/) {                                                  return $rc;                                                                   }                                                                             return 0;                                                                     }                                                                             __________________________________________________________________________

What is claimed is:
 1. A method of matching a first user of a systemwith at least one other user of the system, comprising the stepsof:obtaining characteristic and criteria data from users of the system;storing the characteristic and criteria data of the users of the system;comparing the criteria data of a first user associated with a first oneof a plurality of newspapers with the characteristic data of at leastone other user of the system, wherein each of the at least one otherusers is associated with a respective one of the plurality ofnewspapers; comparing the criteria data of the at least one other userwith the characteristic data of the first user; and providinginformation associated with the at least one other user to the firstuser for the case where at least some of the characteristic data of theat least one other user matches the criteria data of The first user, andat least some of the characteristic data of the first user matches thecriteria data of the at least one other user, wherein the newspaperassociation of the at least one other user can form a basis to preventthe information associated with the at least one other user from beingprovided to the first user, wherein the provided information includesinformation that allows the first user to access a voice mail greetingwhich the at least one user has generated.
 2. The method according toclaim 1, wherein the characteristic data of the first user includes agedata.
 3. The method according to claim 1, wherein the criteria data ofthe first user includes a desired range of ages with respect to the atleast one other user.
 4. The method according to claim 1, wherein atleast one of the characteristic data elements of the first user isselected from the group consisting of age, gender, ethnicity, religion,parental status, smoking status, drinking status, body type, educationlevel, height, and geographic location.
 5. The method according to claim1, wherein at least one of the criteria data of the first user isselected from the group consisting of age range, gender, ethnicity,religion, parental status, smoking status, drinking status, body type,education level, height, and geographic location.
 6. The methodaccording to claim 1, wherein the step of obtaining the characteristicand criteria data includes communicating over the Internet.
 7. Themethod according to claim 1, wherein the information associated the atleast one other user includes an e-mail address.
 8. The method accordingto claim 1, wherein the information for the at least one other user isprovided in an order according to a parameter.
 9. The method accordingto claim 8, wherein the parameter is selected from the group consistingof e-mail capability, voice-greeting status, on-line personal ad status,system identification number, geographical closeness, closeness in age,astrological closeness, response level to personal ad, number of usersin personal journal, likelihood of responding to an e-mail, most recentsystem interaction, number of system stamps.
 10. A system for matching afirst user with at least one other user of the system, comprising;aninterface for obtaining characteristic and criteria data for users ofthe system; a memory for storing the characteristic and criteria data ofusers of the system including the first user and the at least one otheruser; a comparator for comparing the criteria data of a first userassociated with a first one of a plurality of newspapers withcharacteristic data of at least one other user, wherein each of the atleast one other users is associated with a respective one of theplurality of newspapers, and comparing the criteria data of the at leastone other user with the characteristic data of the first user; and acommunication device for providing information associated with the atleast one other user to the first user for the case where at least someof the criteria data of the first user matches the characteristic dataof the at least one other user and at least some of the criteria data ofthe at least one other user substantially matches the characteristicdata of the first user, wherein the newspaper association of the atleast one other user can form a basis to prevent the informationassociated with the at least one other user from being provided to thefirst user, wherein the provided information includes information thatallows the first user to access a voice mail greeting which the at leastone user has generated.
 11. The system according to claim 10, furtherincluding ordering means for providing the information associated withthe at least one other user in an order based on a parameter.
 12. Thesystem according to claim 11, wherein the parameter is selected from thegroup consisting of e-mail capability, voice-greeting status, on-linepersonal ad status, system identification numbers geographicalcloseness, closeness in age, astrological closeness, response level topersonal ad, number of users in personal journal, likelihood ofresponding to an e-mail, most recent system interaction, number ofsystem stamps.
 13. The system according to claim 10, wherein theinterface includes a connection over the Internet.
 14. The systemaccording to claim 10, wherein the memory includes a database allowingstorage of the characteristic or criteria data in the form of a datastring.
 15. The system according to claim 10, wherein the comparatorincludes forming a data string based on the characteristic and criteriadata of the first user and the at least one other user for searching auser database.
 16. A computer program product, comprising;a computerusable medium having computer readable code to obtain characteristic andcriteria data from users of the system; a computer usable medium havingcomputer readable code to store the characteristic and criteria data ofthe users of the system; a computer usable medium having computerreadable code to compare the criteria data of a first user associatedwith a first one of a plurality of newspapers with the characteristicdata of at least one other user of the system, wherein each of the atleast one other users is associated with a respective one of theplurality of newspapers; a computer usable medium having computerreadable code to compare the criteria data of the at least one otheruser with the characteristic data of the first user; a computer usablemedium having computer readable code to provide information associatedwith the at least one other user to the first user for the case where atleast some of the characteristic data of the at least one other usermatches the criteria data of the first user, and at least some of thecharacteristic data of the first user matches the criteria data of theat least one other user, wherein the newspaper association of the atleast one other user can form a basis to prevent the informationassociated with the at least one other user from being provided to thefirst user, wherein the provided information includes information thatallows the first user to access a voice mail greeting which the at leastone user has generated.
 17. The computer program product according toclaim 16, further comprising a computer usable medium having computerreadable code to order the information associated with the at least oneother user according to a parameter.
 18. The computer program productaccording to claim 16, wherein the computer usable medium has computerreadable code that obtains characteristic and criteria data over theInternet.